Empowered Wellness Education
Understanding the deeper systems that influence energy, metabolism, and long-term health




Your Brain Needs REM: How to Get More of It Every Night!
Rapid Eye Movement (REM) sleep makes up about 20–25% of total sleep, translating to roughly 90 minutes in a typical 7–8 hour night. 
During REM, your brain is highly active: dreaming, consolidating memory, and reducing emotional reactivity. 
It’s also vital for creativity and mental resilience. 
Adults who get less REM may notice fogginess, memory lapses, or mood swings as a result.

7 Evidence‑Based Strategies to Boost REM Sleep

Aim for 7–9 Hours in Bed

REM sleep tends to increase in the later sleep cycles. Getting at least 7 hours in bed—ideally more—means more REM opportunities in the second half of the night.

Take Magnesium

Supplementing with magnesium (such as citrate) supports the neurotransmitter GABA, which in turn helps increase REM. Studies show older adults saw longer REM periods and faster sleep onset when taking magnesium.

Limit Alcohol 

Even a few drinks can delay onset of REM and reduce overall REM minutes.  To preserve REM, avoid alcohol, especially in the evening.

Use Calming Scents

Soothing aromas using authentic essential oils—like lavender, chamomile, rose, and vanilla—help prep the nervous system for restorative sleep. Diffuse or apply topically before bed to potentially increase REM and reduce nighttime awakenings.

Get Natural Light (and Avoid Blue Light at Night)

Exposure to daylight boosts sleep-wake regulation. Aim for 30–40 minutes outside in the morning, and dim blue light at least two hours before bed using blackout shades or low-light lamps.

Avoid Caffeine Late in the Day

Caffeine can shift your sleep architecture—pushing REM earlier and delaying deep sleep. Consider stopping caffeine at least 6 hours before bedtime—or switch to decaf after midday.

Keep Your Bedroom Cool

REM sleep can be disrupted by overheating. Use a room temperature between 60–67°F, lightweight bedding, and breathable fabrics like linen or bamboo to maintain an optimal cool environment.

Enhancing REM with Young Living Products

Deep Night Essence™ & Super Magnesium

Deep Night Essence is a supplement that combines botanical extracts like spearmint and green tea, along with lavender, to promote relaxation without melatonin.
  • Night Blend: Spearmint and green tea extracts
    • promote more restful sleep*
  • Holy basil and lemon balm extracts
    • support the body’s natural response to stress*
  • Lavender essential oil
    • supports sleep quality during occasional restlessness*
  • Spearmint essential oil
    • supports overall wellness*
Super Magnesium

  • Supports over 300 functions in the body, including a calm nervous system, healthy organ function, restful sleep, and metabolic health*
  • Inhibits oxidative stress*
  • Contains melon juice concentrate to increase magnesium efficiency in the body and reduce oxidative stress and fatigue*
  • Decreases physical fatigue while supporting an active lifestyle and normal energy levels*
  • Vegetarian and vegan friendly


Freedom Sleep™ Collection

Includes the AromaSleep™ blend and Freedom™ synergy oil, designed to diffuse or apply topically as part of a bedtime wind-down routine.

Young Living Frankincense Essential Oil

Ideal for calming nighttime tension, and synergizing with magnesium or aromatic therapies to support REM sleep.

To weave these into your nightly routine: take Deep Night Essence and Super Magnesium per instructions, and finish with AromaSleep or a few drops of Lavender or Frankincense on pulse points to anchor relaxation before lights out.  Diffusing Lavender and Cedarwood is a great sleep option.

REM Sleep Checklist

Habit / Product

How It Supports REM
7–9 hours in bed
Provides more cycles with REM opportunities
Magnesium / Deep Night Essence
Supports GABA neurotransmission for REM deepening
Avoid alcohol
Prevents REM suppression
Lavender, Frankincense, Cedarwood
Reduces pre-sleep anxiety and promotes calm
Morning daylight + blackout at night
Regulates circadian rhythm for better REM timing
Limit caffeine after midday
Avoids REM disruption and fragmented sleep
Cool bedtime environment
Minimizes brief awakenings and preserves REM

Closing Thoughts

REM sleep is essential—not just for feeling rested, but for emotional balance, memory, and creative thinking. Combined with Young Living products like Deep Night Essence and Super Magnesium, with essential oils, you can craft a nighttime ritual that supports deeper, more restorative sleep. 

Start small: maybe try the Deep Night Essence and Super Magnesium and see how you feel. Over time, you’ll build a personalized routine that supports better rest and brighter days.

*These statements have not been evaluated by the Food and Drug Administration. Young Living products are not intended to diagnose, treat, cure, or prevent any disease.
Continue Your Exploration

If this article resonated with you, the Empowered Wellness Vault is the best place to begin understanding the deeper systems influencing your body.
This is where most people start.


Stay Connected

Receive new articles exploring energy, metabolism, brain clarity, hormones, and long-term wellness.




0 Comments

Leave a Comment


Start Here
If you're new, this is the best place to begin. Foundational wellness education helps you understand the deeper systems influencing your energy, metabolism, brain clarity, and overall well-being. When these systems are understood, the body is able to restore balance more naturally.


Stay Connected
Receive new articles and deeper insights delivered directly to your inbox. Each post builds on the last, helping you see your body more clearly and move forward with greater confidence and ease.



About Empowered Wellness
Empowered Wellness Education explores the deeper systems that influence how your body functions and adapts over time. This work focuses on understanding first—because when you understand what your body has been doing and why, the path forward becomes clearer, calmer, and more effective.


© Jacque McLaughlin | Empowered Wellness Education









Wellness Clarity Guide

Understand what your body is communicating through symptoms like fatigue, brain fog, and stress. Get clarity on your unique situation and discover your next steps—whether that's self-paced learning or personalized guidance.

Understand what your body may be communicating through symptoms like fatigue, brain fog, sleep disruption, or stress.

This guide helps identify the physiological system most likely involved and explain what may be happening beneath the surface.

You can begin by describing what you've been experiencing.
More below
Before we continue...
Please share your contact information so we can follow up with you.

My Story

 
For decades, I lived and worked in a high-stress environment as a court reporter, balancing demanding 80-hour workweeks while raising my son as a single mother.

From the outside, I was strong and capable. But internally, the chronic pressure was quietly reshaping my body in ways I didn’t yet understand.

Over time, the effects of prolonged stress began to surface—fatigue, imbalance, and eventually an autoimmune diagnosis that forced me to pause and reconsider everything I thought I knew about health.

What I discovered changed the trajectory of my life.

I began to understand that the body is not fragile or broken. It is adaptive, intelligent, and constantly responding to its environment. Symptoms were not random failures. They were signals—evidence of deeper systems working hard to protect and preserve balance under prolonged strain.

This realization shifted my focus completely.

Instead of chasing symptoms or forcing solutions, I began studying the underlying systems that influence energy, metabolism, brain function, hormones, and long-term vitality. As I supported those systems using natural, sustainable approaches, my body began to restore balance in ways I had not thought possible.

That experience became the foundation of my work.

For more than two decades, I have helped others understand their bodies through this same systems-based lens—helping them move from frustration and confusion to clarity and confidence in their wellness journey.

My work is not about quick fixes or temporary solutions. It is about helping you understand what your body has been communicating, so you can support it in restoring balance naturally and sustainably.

When you understand the deeper patterns, everything begins to make more sense.

And from that place of understanding, true healing becomes possible.


Contact